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I need to give blogging a chance and see if sharing my years of care giving experience can be of  help to,so many others who right this minute are caring for a loved one and feeling alone and overwhelmed.  I have had some trouble with trolls and that has caused me to delay posting. I spent just a couple months short of 37 years care giving my daughter Bree. I cared for an end stage Alzheimer's patient during the last 6 months of her life and helped out a PTSD army vet with food shopping, house cleaning and dealing with short term memory loss. These experiences total 4 decades of my life and it is very easy for me to be the care giver, far too easy. The last care giving job with the Alzheimer's patient ended just 2 1/2 months ago.   Four decades later and now I need to start over and it is challenging finding my way.  I have moved 3 times in the last year for jobs and fulfilling a commitment to my daughter. People tend to know me as a care giver and are recommen...

The reason I blog and YouTube

This is the reason I do a YouTube channel and Blog.  It is because of Mom's like this and their My daughter and I are from Surrey England, Still their no real understand about these 4q chromezone deletions even in 2018. Your videos are the best resource we have, and they work well for me and my daughter. I really want to say a hart felted thank you to you Wendy. We now bean doing rebounding and doing five very small meals aday for my 5year old and it works amazingly since birth we always had sickness, but know it's like she is a new child. Her glow has returned and her skin is no longer spoty. Thank you so much, many blessings from Surrey England xchildren. It is the reason I block and delete trolls daily so I can continue to support families like this- E-mail- My daughter and I are from Surrey England, Still their no real understand about these 4q chromezone deletions even in 2018. Your videos are the best resource we have, and they work well for me and my daug...

Today a note that brought me to tears

Today I received this comment relating to my video -Raising Bree on my YouTube channel.----- No words could Ever describe the Respect I have for you Wendy. I just came across the Video of You and Bree.... and then minutes later learned that Bree has moved on. Big, furry, 270 lbs USMC Vet. and I can't stop the Tears coming down my face and Smiling at the same time... YOU and Bree touched me today in a way that I didn't think was possible. YOU Are a True Hero Wendy. I Hope you find Happiness and Peace for the Rest of your Days. Thank you to You and to Bree  To know that my daughter still opens hearts is why I forge on and daily block and delete trolls. I do not consider myself as a hero because  I just loved my daughter and it always felt very natural to do whatever I could to support her in being as healthy and happy as I could provide. Bree was my greatest gift and she came into my life, shook it up, and she patiently put up with me and remade me into a much bette...

A Letter from a young 17 year-old boy on how Bree touched his life

This is an e-mail I received last evening . The sender asked to remain anonymous. It touches my heart to see how my beautiful daughter Bree has inspired so many. Hi Wendy, I am a 17 year old boy and I live in CT. I found your "Raising Bree" video by chance one night and I have not been the same since. You have inspired me in such a short amount of time. Since watching your video I have changed my diet, started meditation, breathing techniques and your tapping methods. I feel so much better about myself and my health. I have started journaling, and I write about you and Bree a lot. I write about your journey, and how it had inspired me and how I feel closer to my spirituality because of the energy you and Bree release, even through a video. My grandmother was a caretaker for my great grandmother who developed crippling Alzheimer's. Although her 4 years couldn't even compare to your lifetime of caretaking, I was able to relate to your struggles. Your f...

A Letter from a 16 year old-girl about how Bree touched her life

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I just received this private message and it touches my heart how my daughter touches so many lives. My little one who did not walk or talk yet she touches so many people. Like a friend of mine says - Bree was pure liquid love and the people who took the time - felt and saw this. Hi Wendy, i understand if you dont respond or open this message. I am a 16 year old girl from Memphis, Tennessee and i happen to stumble upon your video of a day in the life of taking care of Bree.A fter watching that video i had to watch your others. I just want to thank you. That video truly changed my life forever. It made me realize that disabled children arent as different from me as i thought. I saw Bree as a friend. I donated $5 to your GoFundMe. I know it isnt much but i wanted to do something. ❤️ ❤️ Recently i searched you on facebook and found out that Bree has passed on. Bree was such an inspiration to me. Not a day goes by where i dont think of Bree and how she has impacted my lif...

Letter from a 12 year old who was touched by my daughter

This is a e-mail I received this morning... .Hello, I'm from Colorado. I am 12 years old. I was just messing around on top buzz when I saw your story. I can only relate with you and your daughter with being poor. However I was truly breath taken with your story. I know you get a lot of questions about you and your daughter, but I would like to ask you some questions. You do not have to answer them but I would love to know your answers.[I do not want to offend you in anyway so if I do I am sorry] 1. If you had one wish in the entire world what would that be? 2. In the future do you think that this symptom will be cured? 3. do you still wish that you still had your husband? 4. what time does your day normally end? I do hope you get this and if you do I would love to know. Thanks, and this is my answer....... Dear ____ You do not realize this - My beautiful daughter passed away about one month ago now. ...
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This morning I was reading "Befriending the Stranger" by Jean Vanier. If you don't know of Jean Vanier, founder of L'Arche, then you are missing out on an amazing spiritual teacher. When I read this passage, I thought, yes this was exactly like my Bree. In one of the communities on the Ivory Coast, a young girl had been abandoned in the brush. (We do the same thing here except we make it look prettier yet it is still abandonment). She was brought to the L'Arche community. They knew she would never be able to walk or talk. They could never quite understand what she was thinking. But - whenever anyone came near her and called her by name her whole face would light up. she had an exceptional beauty. She was completely incapable of judging or condemning anyone. But if people did not pay attention to her, she could feel hurt. (My Bree) One day while I was looking at her, I thought to myself, Jesus must be a bit like that: Neither judging nor condemn...